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Well, if your point was that you don't know anything about AAVE or linguistics, then you've certainly proven it.
Why does the word "ain't" carry a negative connotation? Think about that for a while. It carries a negative connation because, traditionally, groups that use it were looked down upon (and still are). People make jokes about how rednecks speak, still; not too long ago, they were jokes about how niggers spoke.
Now, I find it rather offensive to look down on someone because of where they were raised or how much money their family had, so I have no reason to look down on the way that they speak. It's different, not better or worse.
It's an interesting double-standard, from a sociolinguist's point of view. If people are prejudiced against women who wear veils, the typical response is to combat the prejudice, not to ask the women to remove them. However, when it comes to dialect, the prejudices are so widespread that the typical response is exactly the opposite.
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Of course you love Bill Cosby! We all love Bill Cosby. Bill Cosby represents all that is good in life.
And I agree with him completely. Blacks blame us for their problems all the time and I'm sick of it. I can remember one girl at my school watching students being handed awards for doing a certain worksheet over the summer and going,"They're racist cuz they ain't handin' any out to black kids! They're racist!" Well, silly girl, if YOU wanted an award, why didn't you DO the worksheet and send it in?
Not only that, but I've only known a few blacks that didn't have a MAJOR attitude problem. I watch black mothers with their kids, and I can't believe the kind of hostility they have in their families either.
And, of course, whites have their problems too, but with blacks their problems seem to be the standard, which is the problem.
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Being the daughter of an English teacher, I have to agree with Tviokh here. Even here in redneckville USA (southern Indiana) we have our local slang/dialect. And it is NOT accepted in the "professional arena". It DOES sound highly uneducated. I too cringe when I hear things like Ain't (which btw is Are IS and not, not am) and WARSH *shudder*. I made an ex of mine write out the word WASH for me and show me where the R was that we didn't cover in my schooling. Then again the schools around here (at least the one I attended) don't help much. I remember getting rather pissed and walking out of my Literature class because I was bored at having to go over and over passages of Romeo and Juliette, because, others in my class didn't understand it. English is the EASIEST language on the planet to learn. Ask anybody who isn't from an English speaking country, who speaks several languages. I've met people from Denmark, Germany, France, and Spain, they all spoke at least 3 languages, and said that English was the easiest for them to learn. Kind of sad that people who LIVE HERE, and are surrounded by it can't won't speak it!
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My mother, the teacher of 40+ years, and I thoroughly agree. Not just about proper English, but about the black lower class (most of it) not taking responsibility for their failures. My mom teaches children who think learning even basic skills makes them white. White, of course, being bad, as in the insult "white bitch." No, they can't call her a bitch, it has to be WHITE bitch. The only thing that's changed since the 70s is that "honky" has dropped out of use and, as Bill said, there is no longer any "black is beautiful" sense of pride. These kids associate being intelligent with being white. They associate having a real job, financial sense and children within wedlock with being white. And they hate the idea of being white so much that they'll refuse to leave the projects, refuse to get an education and refuse to have any worthwhile goals despite the opportunities being handed to them.
Before I ignite any flames: Are these opportunities failproof, or anywhere near it? Hell no. Does racism still exist? Oh fuck yes. Do all black people refuse to make the effort to achieve? Absolutely not, and the examples I can cite only start with my boss, my mom's boss, the mayor, and several of my coworkers and friends.
But there *are*, like I said, kids who don't expect to live to 30, kids who value jewelry over a nest egg and a car over a house, kids who think that the most successful job they can get is playing ball or dealing drugs. And these are the kids who fail grade after grade and blame "white people" for it. They learned to think that way from their parents, and from the cronies in the Orleans Parish School Board who insult competent white teachers and encourage racism more than the KKK ever could. So yes, the Coz is right.
(He'd better be, he taught my dad everything he knows about raising kids) ^_^
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From: lizey |
Date: July 2nd, 2004 08:36 pm (UTC) |
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*agrees with above* The point of speaking 'properly' when you're not in a very casual setting is so that everyone will understand and has the added plus of keeping you out of the redneck, etc, box. And no, that doesn't mean there's an oppressive machine controlling the way we speak. It means that the mainstream way of speaking just so happens not to be, for example, AAVE.
Also, if you can't speak 'proper' English, that does bespeak a lack of education. If you go through your basic education, you learn plenty about grammar and 'correct' language. So if you can't speak correctly, as I defined above, then you are largely uneducated. Or stupid, to be frank. That would be my explanation of the stereotype.
And the 'prejudice' isn't confined to AAVE. I picked up an enormous vocabulary by the age of eleven or so for a variety of reasons, and I still have to watch my language so that everyone can understand and don't look at me like I'm some intellectual snob. Why would they think I'm an intellectual snob? Because I'm using complicated words people don't understand, which implies that I want to make them look ignorant.
Hopefully most of that made sense and isn't too long after the original post.
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*fangirls you for fangirling Bill Cosby*
*fangirls Bill Cosby too* <3
Honestly, I agree with every word he's saying. I'm white, for background info, and particularly un-racist thankyouverymuch.
I'm glad he has the guts to speak out about how he really feels...and glad he has the head on his shoulders to allow him to speak unadultered common sense.
Honestly, I'm so tired of seeing African Americans put down white people and call them "crackers" and have absolutely no problem with it, but practically explode if they so much as hear somebody throw out the "N Bomb": "nigger." A man is responsible for making a man of himself...and the 'gangstas' among them are only disgracing themselves. But the parents are responsible too, and they have no logical reason to blame white people if they were unable to provide x, y, and z for their child.
The saddest thing is that a lot of those who do manage to live upright and to make something of themselves are also disgraced, via the joy that is imbecilic stereotypes, by their less ambitious brethren. That makes me very sad.
*keeps on fangirling Bill Cosby*
<3!
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From: visp |
Date: July 3rd, 2004 07:16 pm (UTC) |
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I speak a bastardized combination of English, Russian, Spanish, Japanese, and my own slang around my family, and flatter myself into thinking that it's intelligent. Still, if I spoke it to anyone else outside my direct family, I'd be taken for a lunatic (or a pentacostal - possibly a Southern Baptist) and if I was foolish enough to assume otherwise, I would and idiot.
I also can swear like a sailor, but I do not fool myself into thinking that this is proper speaking, nor do I assume that someone who would take me for a guttersnipe if they heard it was being prejudiced against pottymouths.
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